{i want you to cry when you read this…be angry…be sad…}

{…and after you are done…become a voice, an active participant, an open door to these gorgeous creatures who need us so badly.}

I have cried and I still am, I am angry and I am so sad from yesterday’s experience but I figure I have two choices — either be sad and upset and feel helpless OR become a voice and a participant.  I have chosen the latter. That doesn’t mean the sadness just goes away or the beautiful faces that I saw are not burnt into my memory, it means that maybe by using what I love and spreading the word through this Blog post or Facebook or any other means my readers can do, I or WE will all become the voice that these animals need so desperately.

Yesterday, I was going to post my message out of anger and frustration — angry because I felt helpless when I saw the beautiful faces — all of them begging to be loved with tails wagging, soft, sad eyes looking at me as if I was their last hope.  Angry  because I saw animals in pens up and down a building the size of a warehouse who just wanted a belly rub and a lay out in the sun and grass.  Angry because even with these hundreds of animals in this one place, there are breeders out there still making more animals out of pure greed and there are people supporting them.  Needless to say, my ‘angry’ list could go on and on but I can’t let it.

My friend Meredith who is active with DCAC and many other groups, invited me out yesterday saying that taking these pictures would make a difference.  I will be honest with you, I assumed I’d take a few photos and we’d post them and help these babies find homes and I would help to make a difference and I was happy with that.  Let’s just say, I had not one clue about the gravity of the situation I was about to see.  We walked through the facility to get to the back and it was like I was in a daze — almost thinking that if I didn’t look, it wouldn’t exist — all of these animals that we were passing by, rows upon rows of endless runs…

I was told that we would be photographing the “Stray Ward” and so we started. Andrea (the ever-tireless-volunteer who comes out once a week like clockwork to DCAC!!) started to bring the dogs out one at a time.  I started to ask, “What’s his name?” and then realized that this baby didn’t have a name, he was a STRAY – found or dropped off by the owner and he only had a NUMBER.  It would take a person to come and say they wanted this beautiful dog for themselves in order for him to have a name again.  I could feel a cry coming on but wouldn’t let it.

Meredith took their information and she and Andrea assessed them briefly — breed, behavior, age, health, weight and personality.  Yes, these guys all had personality — some crazy (yes we know that type), some shy, some just silly and fun and some just scared and sad — can’t say I blamed them really.  In between the dogs, I started asking questions on what happens (in my head though, I was thinking, “Do you really want to know, Rupa, ’cause it’s just gonna’ make you cry!”) to these dogs, how long do they have to live here and how did most of them land at this facility.  I got honest truths and again, could feel a cry coming on but wouldn’t let it.

We found out that there were two other photographers on the other end of the building and they were doing the same for the same group of dogs – the “Stray Ward” and evidently between the three of us, we had done one entire (very large) row of all of the dogs so now they could go onto Petfinder.com.  Mission accomplished.  We did good.

As I am leaving, Andrea is putting the last little dog back into his pen and as I look down the long, long aisle of pens, listening to a thunder of barks, seeing tails wagging, the reality is now real.  No more daze. No more pretending.  Andrea asks if I want to see the puppies.  I agree (not knowing this was going to throw me over the edge.)  We pass by two more rows of pens and down the last one — there are the pitties — a mom comes up to see me and behind her I see her puppy trying to get out of it’s bed…I want to stop and pet her, to touch her because she looks like she wants it and needs it so bad, but we keep walking and there is another and another…I am told that the pits don’t have a long life here and that there are more and more being dropped off each day.  We land in the room of puppies.  No kidding.  Beautiful, little, squealing puppies and there are too many to count and I am now just stunned.  Another room, we see cats and kittens – again, too many to count.  Another room and a beautiful golden lab puppy and another black one and again, more, too many and I can’t handle it any more…my heart hurts so much.  I could feel a cry coming on and this time I just let it.

Andrea apologized but that was not needed.  This reality was very much needed and although my heart hurt and my head hurt and I cried again when I got in the car driving away, cried again while calling my friend Karen to let her know what it was like but at the same time, how much I also knew I had to go back because that “difference” that I thought I’d make in one day, well, it was going to take a little more than that and did she want to come out and help so we could double it up and make it just a bit more.

What was supposed to be a few hours of helping a friend and “some dogs” has turned out to be a new journey and a quest that I feel needs to be depicted in pictures and words. I will be back next week and I know I will cry again but I am ok with that because I know that it makes a difference.  So even though I am a small tiny business and that my Blog may only get a read here and there, I hope that if it gets inside the head of a few of you and you pass it one and they pass it on, maybe we can make a significant difference soon.

And for those of you who say you can’t walk into a facility like this, let me tell you, YOU CAN! If you want to go with me the next time I am going out, please contact me.  If you can do it on another day, next week or tomorrow, please contact me and I will have you touch base with Jaime, the wonderful gal who works at DCAC and would LOVE to see a new face that can help them!

Below are photos from yesterday and also a few links – one to DCAC and the other to the slideshow of the babies up for adoption.  Thank you to the folks at DCAC for having me and I give you guys a lot of credit — I can tell you that you work hard and diligently with a smile on your face for these wonderful animals!

If you can’t volunteer and help right now, if you would please send the link to this post to friends and family, I would love it.  If we can get more people educated and aware, we are headed in the right direction.

Did you know that…
… DeKalb County Animal Control is located just off of I-285 and Memorial Drive?
… you can actually ADOPT beautiful dogs and cats there?
… they receive loads of dogs each and every single day – whether stray or just being dropped off at the counter because their owners can’t take care of them?
… up to 20 animals are put to sleep each and every single week because they have no place to call home?
…you can volunteer time there and the folks there will love you for it!?
…if you adopt a baby there, you will receive LOVE & KISSES for a very long time?!
…it is very affordable to get LOVE & KISSES for a very long time!?

To adopt one of these babies, go to PetFinder.

Friend them on Facebook HERE.

To see a slideshow of the beautiful dogs we photographed yesterday and that are at
DCAC right now & available for adoption, click HERE.
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DCAC desperately needs items — because they are a government run facility, they are unable to take financial donations, however, they can accept items and the two they are asking for now are DOG BEDS & STRETCH&SCRATCHES – (click on either of those to go the sites and give!)

Friends of DeKalb Animals are a Rescue Organization that has played a vital role in pulling up to 30+ animals fromDCAC at a time and finding them homes, BUT in order to do this, they also need funding.
Any amount, large or small will be appreciated!

Go to the Friends of DeKalb Animals site and once on the site, scroll down and click on the ‘CHIP IN’ link to donate!!


{come on…be smug!}

I can now admit that I was a bit anxiety-ridden last Thursday.  Sat at my desk and “worked” but would get up every few minutes to check on something or go back out and check the “Smug Stash” to make sure it was all ready to go.  Ran out to Office Depot just to get a breather and bought name tags ’cause I thought, “Everyone MUST get to know each other’s names!”.

And as I was perusing the aisles (I think I am the only one who “peruses” Office Depot when there!), saw these great notebooks on sale for $1 a piece and decided to make them “Borrow Me” Books. I was sure that many of the Smuggers were coming from all sides of town, fighting traffic after a long day of work and, what if someone needed to take notes!?  The lady at the check out was impressed – I want to say it was due to my “Borrow Me Book” story but I think it was because the notebooks were such an amazing deal!

Run home, get my checklist — SMUG t-shirts, hats, camera straps boxed up – check. Agenda typed out for the evening – check. Name tags and notebooks in box – check.  Camera, uh-oh, who would take photos at the meeting tonight?  Not like we weren’t all photographers attending but I just didn’t know everyone coming so I called my friend Stephen Milano who stepped up and said he’d take photos for us — thank you Stephen.  So photography for meeting – check.  Food – Six Feet Under was catering (woo-hoo!) – check. Fish bowl for business cards for give-aways – check. Drinks, napkins, forks, plates – Karen has it under control – check!!

I think I must have called Karen a half dozen times that week — she is my good friend and colleague who agreed to lead the Atlanta SMUG with me and for that, I am so thankful and excited!

Every time I called her, I got a very calm, “Hi Ka-Rupa” (evidently that is how my name show up on her caller id — or so she says anyway – and so that is now my nickname!) to my “Did you see we have (OMG!) 37 people coming!”, “You think it is ok to do that?”, “I had a great idea on the icebreaker – what do you think?”  And every time, I received great feedback and the ability to brainstorm with someone with whom I could just as easily have a great laugh with as well as a serious discussion. Thank you Karen – you totally ROCK girlie!

PPR Atlanta was generous to donate their location for our meetings!  A great space central to town with chairs, kitchen, shooting space, music — you name it — how lucky is the Atlanta SMUG to have this kind of support

Setting up for the meeting, and going back out to my car, I see a little green scooter at the top of the hill with a green-helmet-bike-jacket-wearing lady and I say, “Hi there, can I help you!?  (The whole time thinking, “WHO is this martian-looking person?!”) and I hear back, “Rupa, it’s ME, Liana!!!”.  Embarrassed but laughing because I feel a bit silly that I don’t recognize her, but then again, she was in a green helmet and biker jacket!!

I think Liana is great and so now I am just excited that this is all coming together — we have Liana Lehman who is the guest speaker for the evening and I just KNOW everyone is not only going to have a great time, but also leave here with some powerful knowledge to help their businesses grow.

The first few Smug members showed up early and immediately asked how they could help us — just automatically felt like this was a good thing already!  Karen and I run up to Six Feet Under to grab food and to get things started and upon our return, we see that everyone has already started to make themselves right at home — chatting and getting to know one another and the energy is there!

We realized later that we probably didn’t need an icebreaker — what with 35 photographers in one space — that happened naturally!  But we did it anyway and it was actually quite fun and then Liana spoke to us about what it takes to be a professional photographer and more importantly, conducted a group discussion about the “3 W’s” – a method for us to use in order to figure out how we stand out as photographers in our market and in this economy.  I could see people thinking, wheels turning and ideas mulling.

When she was done, Carlton (a Smug member), pointed out very matter-of-factly that he loved the topic and her talk because the group dynamic created during the speak generated thought and sharing of ideas and made us a “group”! Wow, that was wonderful to hear!

After a few give-aways of Smug Swag — hats, camera straps and t-shirts, we also gave away a $50 Gift Certificate for Album Cafe!  Generous enough to provide Smuggers with a long-standing discount towards their products, they were also kind enough to send a gift card!  And, as we mentioned during the meeting — there are more of those to come from Album Cafe as well as other wonderful photography vendors!

Leaving there that evening, Karen and I both looked at one another with a “we did it!” smile and were already talking about next month’s meeting ideas!

First Atlanta SMUG Meeting accomplished — check!


{memories on mondays | hair down to HERE}

In my mom’s words:

“Rupa was so social as a baby — she’d go visit the neighbors all day long and get fed along the way and never really want to come back home!  We could barely get her in the house for a half hour for a bath & a hair wash since, well, you know she had hair down to HERE (tapping her hand near her bottom). She’d run out as soon as we were done and go back to visiting again — ‘having too much fun mom, can I spend the night?!”, you’d hear her say as she was already running away laughing and waving good-bye to us!”


{welcome SMUG, Atlanta’s been waiting!}

I had decided a few weeks back that I needed to “slow down” a bit and “take it easy” a bit and then that same week, I get a message from Dawn McCarthy of Dawn McCarthy Photography, a friend and photography colleague who I truly respect and whose energy and capabilities knows no bounds (seriously!)!!

We get on the phone and within minutes, I hear myself saying, “wow, this sounds really cool, tell me more about SMUG”, which was then followed by “Really? I like that!” and “this is great…you know my wheels are turning…because my friend Karen and I were just talking about how fun it would be to have a large community of photographers that could get together and be a part of an interactive type of meeting where we could learn about lighting skills, how to build your business, go on photo shoots, maybe have a photo competition, and maybe even just have a party to get together and have a good time … and the list went on and on!!”  Oh yeah the floodgates were opening and I was OFF! :  )

After speaking with Dawn for a while longer, I told her that I was definitely up for the responsibility and was so excited about the opportunity…and from that, we went full force!  Emails were flying, ideas were put on paper, Karen, my good friend and photography colleague here in Atlanta, stepped up to be co-leader and together, we are thrilled to start the Atlanta SMUG!

The best part of all of this is that we have the support & resources of SMUG, a dynamic, national company that believes in supporting photography communities and that in itself is a huge asset to building a great community.

The first meeting is tomorrow, Thursday, August 19th and we already have 68 members in the Atlanta SMUG and close to 40 people attending!! To create a little buzz for the evening, we have some great giveaways that will happen throughout the evening, a FUN meet & greet, followed by an evening with Liana Lehman as she talks about “Standing Out & Setting Yourself Apart as a Photographer”.

If you are a photographer and want to come out to this meeting or any future meetings or just want more information, go to the Atlanta SMUG Meetup site and register.  Smug is free to all photographers so come out and meet your colleagues who will be sure to turn into friends very quickly!

{memories on mondays | chunkiest baby}

I have wanted to do a ‘unique & fun’ post for a while now — something that represented me but not necessarily from a specific session with a client but one that I could share a story and maybe an image or two.

So, while at my parent’s house a few weeks ago, we were going through (and giggling at) an old photo album that included everything from pictures of my parents when they were departing India for their lifetime journey to the States to baby pictures of me and my sisters to some great shots of my dad with all the “used-to-be-bachelors” once they arrived in the states and so much more!  Great memories and some amazing experiences over the years that made me think this could be that ‘unique & fun’ post I had been thinking about.  So “Memories on Mondays” was born — a Blog post that would let me share some of these wonderful experiences — some that I remember as vivid as yesterday and others that my parents have told us over the years.  So come back every Monday (or better yet, get the RSS Feed so you can catch up when you want!) to join me for a taste of memories throughout the years!

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“Chunkiest Baby Contest, 1967″

With dimpled cheeks, “kohl kajal” eyes, and a “healthy look” about me, I won the “Chunkiest (aka, the “Healthiest” as they called it in India) Baby Contest” in Bombay when I was 1 years old. Held by a baby powder company, and as the winner, I had my photograph taken professionally with the product and my mom said that we won 20 Rupees!
In 1967, 20 Rupees was enough to enjoy dinner out at least 3 or 4 times – so a nice little bit of change for being such a chunky monkey!

Here’s the winning photo –